The mind is able to rationalize about anything.
Do not allow your mind to make anything “ok” that will hurt, harm or disrespect yourself or another Being. The goal is to self observe and to scrutinize your own rationalizations.
Question your own mind! Just because it is telling you that it is “alright” to do something, say something or act in a certain way, definitely does not mean that it is!
The more you practice it the more it will spill over onto others.
Spread the good vibes ;0)))