“We are all the same, but different”

  |   healing, transformation

So many of us feel like we are not as special as some others. Some feel they are more special than others. We often put others on pedestals and while at time we are self exalting.
This is certainly the work of the ego and it is the ego’s force that seeks out to divide us.  The ego feeds the illusion perspective of separation.  Science is proving, however, that we are all energetically interconnected and therefore literally One.   Oneness is the truth perspective and ego is the false and illusion based perspective of the Human drama play.
As we are One, we are all the same.  We are all equally the same.  We are all equally extensions of source.  No one of us is more or less than another.  We enjoy total equality.
The ego will want to say things like, “Ok but I make $10 million a year and that makes me better than someone who makes $10 thousand.”  “She is a movie star, I am not as special as she — she is extraordinary.”
“I have no skills, I am a loser.”  “I wish I was as great and successful as he.”  And the list goes on and on for most of us.  Of course there is a wide range of higher to lesser extremes on the scale.
As you can clearly see, it is the negative side of the ego, which has us compete, see ourselves as better or less than another, which promotes separation from our innate equality.
It is your personal job to recognize when your ego wants to separate you from your true Oneness and equality with all other Beings.  As you allow your ego to run its divergent course, you suffer the consequences.  When you allow the ego to run your thought patterns and beliefs into separation you will naturally feel unhappy, lonely, frustrated, angry, depressed, anxious, etc.  On this path, you will very likely speak words and take actions that will dislodge you more from your true core self and from others while causing an even deeper sense of separation and darkened mood.
It is up to you to keep your ego in check.
When you manage to stop the ego thoughts you will begin to feel comfortable in your individual differences.  You will then begin to thrive in the truest sense of the word because there is less remaining pressure to compete, to fight for, to outshine, to control, to separate yourself from anybody.  On the contrary, you will realize that there is plenty for everybody and everybody fits perfectly into the grid of Humanness and supports you as well as the whole with their individual differences.
The key for you is to understand that you are different, in a good way.
The difference is obvious in looks, likes and dislikes, preferences, behaviors, gifts, certain abilities, talents, quirks, habits, skills, etc. Yes you are different in so many wonderful ways but still equal to all other Human Beings.  We are all different but the same!!!!
It is worth the effort to shift yourself into your true self and out of the illusion of separation.  It will make for a better and healthier life in every way and on all levels.  When you free yourself from the negative ego and allow the equality with everybody you will begin to thrive emotionally, mentally, physically and spiritually.
Always remember, you are the same as every other Human.  You may be different but surely the same and certainly very special. ;0)))
With Love and Light,